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Teaching Good Manners and Proper Etiquette for Kids


Teaching Kids Good Manners
It is well-known that kids can be brutally honest. They speak their minds without a filter and most often without ill-intent. Children simply state what is obvious to them and those observations are usually true. If a kid sees an obese woman and asks too loudly how she got so fat, that’s a valid question. That being said, it is also seen as rude and insensitive. Most children won’t automatically feel empathy for this woman; proper manners and etiquette need to be taught.

Proper Etiquette for Kids
Proper etiquette for kids needs to be instilled, and constantly reinforced, starting at an early age. Parents can demonstrate by example the importance of always saying “please” and “thank you” when asking and receiving. Teaching manners can start at infancy. These simple statements should be taught when an infant is forming words. Create a habit, without any thought.

Examples of good manners
Take the time to cultivate etiquette for kids. It will pay off as you begin to see your child develop into a well-mannered member of society who treats people with respect. Teaching manners isn’t difficult if you put it into practice early and reinforce polite behaviors daily. Here is a list of manners your child should know:

• It is very rude to interrupt when others are speaking. Be patient and wait for your turn. If it is an emergency, say “excuse me” and or raise your hand to alert adults that you have a problem.
• If you are unsure about something ask for clarity before taking action.
• Suppress the desire to interject your negative opinion. Negative comments should remain unspoken or done so away from anyone they might harm. Never put down other people’s physical attributes or call them insulting names. Teasing is a cruel sign of weakness.
• Avoid foul language, especially around adults.
• Never pick your nose, particularly in public. Always cover your mouth when you cough or sneeze.
• When you walk through a door hold it for the person behind you. If someone holds the door for you, take hold of it, don’t just walk through it and say “thank you.”
• Be helpful. If you see someone struggling or attempting a new project, as how you can help. If you are asked for a favor from a grown up, get it done without complaining.
• At meal time, avoid slurping and chew with your mouth closed. Use your utensils correctly and place a napkin on your lap to catch spills and for easy access for wiping. Never reach over anyone or across the table for food items. Politely ask the person closest to pass it along.

Teaching manners helps foster kindness and a sense of community. By practicing proper manners and etiquette your child will learn to appreciate others more, be pleasant to be with and likely develop into a positive adult.